December 11th 2004 - Another Random Japanese Experience


Originally, I was going to go to an onsen (hot spring bath) today, with Ellie and Rinosan (the girl who I met at the party last week). Unfortunately, when Rinosan came and picked us up, she said that she had a cold and so she couldn’t go into the onsen (Japanese people are paranoid about taking baths when they’re ill). So instead, she suggested we go for a little drive in Aso (the mountainous part of Kumamoto) and have lunch somewhere.

Well, when we got there, the first thing Rinosan did was take us to some ethnic/new agey type shops that were slap bang in the middle of the mountains. I’m not so keen on ethnic fashion, so I wasn’t particularly enthralled. I was already a little grumpy because it was morning, and because I was ever-so-slightly hung over from the night before, not to mention disappointed about not going to the onsen, so the whole situation began to annoy me – how can someone go to a beautiful place in the middle of nowhere and spend about an hour shopping, which you could do in town? In fact, no matter how much I love Japan, that’s something I’ll never get over – the casual way the Japanese seem to treat nature as an amusement park rather than something living and precious and special; Mt. Aso itself is full of gift shops, all selling the same expensive, somewhat tacky goods.

However, after this little shopping trip, we went to a little restaurant, in this is where I started to enjoy myself, probably cause getting some decent food in me helped me recover from my hangover. The restaurant itself was fantastic. It was very traditional style, with a wooden floorboard and beams. It was the type of restaurant where you cook the food yourself, on a little barbeque-style cooker. So, we dined upon grilled beef, chicken, sweet potato, pumpkin and onigiri, and it was delicious, as well as fun to make. The atmosphere too was wonderful – the restaurant has a wonderful view of the surrounding mountains, and as the weather was so good today the scenery was beautiful.

But, possibly the must astonishing thing of all was the toilet – it was located in a very large room, complete with waterfalls, a miniature pond and stepping stones!



After that, Rinosan took us somewhere pretty familiar – Mt. Aso, the precise location we visited on our first week here. But at first, I could hardly recognise it; Mt. Komekuza, the perfectly conical peak which had in early October been completely green, had now changed totally brown. They certainly don’t exaggerate the drastic nature of seasonal change in Japan.

 

Mt. Aso has not been completely spoilt by human habitation, and it’s still beautiful and mysterious, from the anthropic landscape to the smoking volcano to the strange, still lakes. However, the extent to which people have colonised the landscape (not that you can blame them, Japan doesn’t have a lot of space!) did upset me a little. To me, to see people treating nature in this way is rather spiritually draining, like turning a church into bouncy castle.

What touched me most of all was, on the way back, Rinosan said she wanted to show us something exciting and surprising. She stopped the car halfway down the mountain at a little spot which is her “secret place,” and completely stopped the engine. Because there were no other cars on the road, everything was completely silence. “Listen! You can’t hear anything,” she said, “This place always surprises my friends! I always like to stop here!” That really touched me – the fact that silence is so rare in the packed and ever-busy Japan, savouring total silence is a precious experience. We may think we’re packed in England, but there’s still several places you can go and completely escape human contact.

After “listening” to this silence, Rinosan got out of the car and produced a bottle of bubble mixture. We had a whale of a time acting like little kids, blowing bubbles everywhere and seeing how large we could make them! Rinosan said, she always brings bubble mixture to Mt. Aso, it’s one of her favourite things to do here. And it was pretty fun!

So, despite a disappointing start, it was a fantastic day, and very refreshing to get out of the city. And Rinosan is a really nice person, great to talk to and exceptionally kind. At the end of the day, when Ellie and I came round to giving her the money for the restaurant, she told us to just give her 1000 yen each – even though I know the price between us was something more like 4000 yen, not 3000. And it was really nice of her to still take us out, even though she had a cold. As usual, I feel humbled by overwhelming Japanese kindness! And she was sure to speak Japanese really slowly and use simple words so I could understand her and not feel like an idiot. The day was a very good experience Japanese-wise too, because I spoke Japanese to her the whole time. So, I told her that in England, it’s customary to buy someone a drink at a pub if they’ve been especially nice to you, so that’s what we’ll do when we next meet!
 

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